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This is a question we need to seriously think about. It’s fun to eat out with co-workers, but can our budget handle it? Following the group could be part of the problem that is siphoning our hard earned money each payday.

No one wants to be left out. Eating lunch together is a way to bond away from the office. Besides it’s only six dollars, right?

This scenario demonstrates how we think when it comes to spending money on food. Food and good times seem to go together in our culture. Eating out is not the only way to bond over food.

When setting up a budget, a category is created for groceries. A weekly or biweekly shopping trip to the grocery store brings enough groceries in the house to feed the family. Buying lunch when there is food in the house blows the budget.

Ask co-workers to try bringing in their own lunch at least three times a week. Make a plan to eat in the break room together or outside at a picnic table for lunch. They will save money also.

When you eat out, you probably choose the same one or two places. Make some of your favorite dishes at home and take them for lunch. The grocery trips are not just for breakfast and dinner items. Buy foods that are good in a packed lunch. Most workplaces have a microwave and/or a toaster oven. You can prepare your food and eat it piping hot.

If you have a group of co-workers that you spend most of your time with, why not start a lunch club. Each person takes a day and fixes something for the others in the group to enjoy. No one has to prepare a meal more than once a week and they will know in advance when it is their turn.

The extra food can be figured into the grocery bill. The lunch club idea may catch on and more people will want to join. The more people are involved, the less often each person has to contribute a meal. The meals don’t have to be elaborate. There are many delicious meals that require only a few ingredients.

You can still eat out once a week or maybe even twice. Add it to your budget. Pay for your meal in cash. This eliminates the temptation to overspend that can happen when using a credit card. Eating lunch out means that dinner will have to be eaten at home to balance spending habits.

Lastly, if the group still wants to eat out more often that your budget allows, opt out. Tell them politely that you can’t go and brown bag it. They’ll still be your friendly co-workers, and you’ll have learned a valuable lesson about resisting the temptation to follow the crowd at the expense of your money.

There are many different attitudes when it comes to money matters; some people spend what they earn in a hand-to-mouth fashion whilst some people save for a rainy day. Why is that? It’s our attitudes and thinking about money that determine our spending behaviour. That means in order to change the way you spend you also need to change your attitude towards money.

How do you view money? We all learn from an early age about money. We watch our parents and how they handle the money that they earn. Some may have had very little because Mom and Dad were low paying jobs whilst others had a lot of money because Mom and Dad had a good income.

Whatever your environment, your money views were probably shaped by those around you. This is where unhealthy views of money begin. If money was a bone of contention in your home, you will likely make every effort to avoid confrontation when it comes to money. That could lead to overspending becoming a hush-hush topic in the home.

If money flowed freely, then you could become a free spender as an adult. Even if your means are more limited than your parents’, you may continue to spend as if you had a million dollars. This type of money attitude can lead to a debt burden too big for you to carry.

Many scenarios can be drawn from childhood exposure to money. Remember Ebenezer Scrooge? He grew up with no money and it took over his life. During his adult years he shunned all other pleasures for his obsession with money. I’m sure nobody wants to end up like that.

It’s not an easy process to change your attitude towards money, but having the desire to do so is the first step. Having the determination to make a change gives you a real chance of making it happen.

It’s important you visit a financial advisor and discuss with them your money problems and your views about money. Let them know what it is you want to accomplish with your money. A financial advisor can take your money and other assets and create a portfolio for you. The portfolio includes how to invest and what to invest in.

A financial advisor may be able to help with a budget. For frugal spenders, a budget can set aside money for one’s enjoyment each month. A frugal person may not take more than one day of freedom, but it is a start. As time goes on, they will relax the reins and learn to enjoy money now and in the future.

A big spender will use a budget to curb spending. It is okay to spend, but make it special and not an everyday occurrence. Money doesn’t always flow freely unless we plan for it to do so. That requires a spender to realize that it is okay not to spend it all at once, but to save some for later.

Ask yourself, what is your money attitude? Is it beneficial or setting you back? To improve your life, why not meet with a financial expert to discuss healthy changes to your money attitude?